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1 August 2026
Ancestors: Mundane to Magnificent, 100 Years Ago
26 May 2026
The Confusion in the Crosbie records
Carved in Stone
![]() The Crosbie Memorial stone in Symonds St, Cemetery, Auckland
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About a fortnight ago four men, named Messrs. Crosbie, Bartlet, Fisher, and Captain McLean, left here in a small boat for the purpose of going to Wangaproa and other places on the coast. Fisher, we believe, has since been found by the natives at Waiheki described as an elderly man, rather bald, and having a watch in his pocket. No news has been heard of the other three, we fear have suffered the same fate as Fisher. (1)
Body Found. — Information arrived in town yesterday that a body, supposed from the description of the dress to be that of Mr. D. Crosbie, had been picked up at Brown's Island. It was carried into the house erected on the island. (2)
Erected by the Loving Daughters of the above David & Barbara Crosbie
Time may have erased the exact year of their father's death from their memories. 1893 when Charles died was 44 years after David's death and there was no official record to check. Their mother Barbara, had died in 1878 so she was no longer there to correct any misconceptions.
DEATH. Crosbie. -Drowned on 7th July, off Rangitoto Island, John Clarke, aged 18, only son of the late David Crosbie, of Auckland. (3)
The tombstones are not always correct, hence databases such as FindaGrave and Billion Graves records may help spread erroneous death dates.
- 1. Auckland Examiner, Volume III, Issue 159, 14 May 1859, Page 2
30 April 2026
Z the Zumarry
Living in Kashmir: A Year of People, Places and Memories
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What is a Zummary? Just a summary with a slight slur after a drink or two! 😀
- A for Accommodation and Arrival
- B for Bazaars, Banks and Baramulla
- C for Carpets, Chilli Chicken and Crossing the Line
- D for Dak Bungalows and Darra
- E for Embroidery and an Elephant
- F for the Fish Market, Fear and Friendship
- G for Golf at Gulmarg and Goats
- H for Houseboats on the Lakes
- I for Inglenook and Indian Republic Day
- J for Jeeps in a Variety of Situations
- K for a Kitchen and the Khyber Pass
- L for Life on the Lakes and Lambrettas
- M for Managing Medical Matters
- N for a Near Miss
- O for the OK Tickets
- P for Papier Mache and People
- Q for Quirky Tales
- S for Supplies and Suffering Moses
- T for Trucks, Trains and Tracks
- U for the Unexpected
- V for the VW and Cricket
- W for Wintering Over
- X for the eXtras
- Y for the Year in Retrospect
- Z for this Zummary
29 April 2026
The Year in Retrospect
Living in Kashmir 1979-80: A Year of People, Places and Memories
Pre-Posting Events
• 16 January 1979 – The Shah fled Iran• 11 February 1979 – Revolutionary forces in Iran took control• 14 February 1979 – In Kabul, Muslim extremists kidnapped the American ambassador to Afghanistan, Adolph Dubs, who was killed during a gunfight between his kidnappers and police
• 4 April 1979 – Pakistani Prime Minister Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto was executed by hanging
• 11 July 1979 – NASA's first orbiting space station, Skylab, began falling back Earth as its orbit decayed after more than six years.
• 4 November 1979 - militants seized the U.S. embassy in Tehran, beginning a hostage crisis.
• 21 November 1979 – After false radio reports from the Ayatollah Khomeini that the Americans had occupied the Grand Mosque in Mecca, the United States Embassy in Islamabad, Pakistan was attacked by a mob and set fire, killing four.
• 28 November 1979– An Air New Zealand DC-10 crashed into Mount Erebus in Antarctica on a sightseeing trip, killing all 257 people on board.
• 24 December 1979 - The Soviet Union invaded Afghanistan.
In March of 1980, we departed with considerable relief, making our way home via Hong Kong. On our first night back in Sydney, we sat at Watsons Bay as the evening light softened over the harbour, a feast of seafood spread before us. The sky was clean and blue and startlingly clear. The streets were quiet and free of the particular odours that had become so familiar.
We enjoyed our food, looked out at the water, and we felt the relief of having come through it all.
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28 April 2026
The eXtras
4. The scoreboard we kept in the kitchen of the number of rats captured in winter. I once threw a plastic bowl over one running across the floor – it died of fright!
5. The “Bad-Taste” Party where we dressed in ridiculous outfits and fed our international friends Vegemite on chapatis.
6. The night we had a variety of local guests, I had catered for Muslim and Hindu tastes and preferences and labelled the food appropriately. Catering across cultures, however, demanded a rather more earnest attention to detail. I was unaware one person was vegan and when asked by her husband what she could eat, all I could suggest was the boiled cauliflower and plain white rice.
Caught on film
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| Fishing in a fabled trout stream near Pahalgam |
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| Some summer cheer with I.H and P.H |
27 April 2026
Wintering Over
Living in Kashmir: A Year of People, Places and Memories
We lived in Inglenook the UN HQ house in Srinagar through the winter months while the headquarters of UNMOGIP migrated south to Rawalpindi for the winter, as it did each year. The absence of colleagues left a quiet gap, yet there was consolation: my husband was no longer pulled away to distant field stations, and was simply home.
The weather was cold and bleak most of the time but there were days when the skies were clear, the mountain air sharp. Tourists had largely deserted the valley. But one steadfast figure remained: an elderly English gentleman who had been living in Srinagar since the days of the Raj. Stanley was a living thread back to another era, and we were glad of his company over shared meals. We listened as he remembered his younger days in a city that had changed beyond all recognition and yet, in certain lights, had not changed at all.
Roshangar was the respected silver merchant. Many had bought traditional silver tea and coffee pot sets from him, we were drawn instead to jewellery. Silver was the natural setting for stones, and one could browse unhurriedly, then choose or commission exactly the piece one wished made.
I came home with three matching sets of bracelet, ring and earrings: garnets, amethysts, and moonstones, each mounted in silver. I also acquired a silver bangle which is a favourite I continue to wear. We also collected gemstones in various shapes, colours and sizes: a small, glittering archive of those bazaar afternoons, of colour and quiet pleasure.
A Game for fair Weather
25 April 2026
The VW and Cricket
A Cricket Match in Srinagar
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| 1979 'CRICKET AUSTRALIANS MAKE 363', The Canberra Times (ACT : 1926 - 1995), 2 September, p. 23. |
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| 1979 'Australians draw in India', The Canberra Times (ACT : 1926 - 1995), 4 September, p. 18. |
The VW moment
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A Second Encounter in Rawalpindi
24 April 2026
The Unexpected
Living in Kashmir: A Year of People, Places and Memories
We did not expect to clasp hands and say goodbye to each other as the pilot of the HS748 hauled the plane out of its final approach to Srinagar Airport.Needless to say, we landed safely, and we are here to tell the tale, though the memory of that flight has stayed with us.
Poverty
The scenes of poverty were expected, in the way that one prepares oneself intellectually for something one has read about and seen on television. That preparation was wholly insufficient when confronted with the reality.No amount of foreknowledge softened the sight of a man whose limbs were so completely twisted that his hands and feet met the ground whilst his body faced the sky. He was a figure of such suffering that it cannot be forgotten.
The maimed children seated at the roadsides, small hands outstretched, were a sight that settled somewhere in my mind, and that sight has not left.
Alcohol and the Art of Concealment
23 April 2026
Trucks, Trains and Taxis
Living in Kashmir 1979-80: People, Places and Memories
Trucks
These workhorses of the roads were dominating and colourful, dodging and weaving through the tightest of spaces. Their highly decorated bodies were covered in a wide variety of patterns and iconography. Their progress was noisy, horns blaring and loud music playing.![]() |
| 1979 - Hajira, Pakistan |
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| Navigating the streets |
Trains
Taxis
The small black and gold Morris Minor taxis were part and
parcel of our everyday life. No matter where one wanted to go a taxi was always
available. Many had no meters, or claimed theirs were broken. Negotiating a
fare before setting off was always the sensible course. The larger Ambassador,
based on the Morris Oxford, offered a rather more comfortable alternative for
longer journeys.
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| Morris Minor in the bazaar |
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| The Ambassador |
The three-wheeled Lambros (tuk-tuks) were everywhere, their great
virtue being an ability to squeeze through the narrowest of lanes where no four-wheeled
vehicle could follow. We occasionally found this particular advantage
somewhat alarming.
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| The 3 wheeler |
The Tanga
22 April 2026
Supplies and Suffering Moses
Living in Kashmir: A Year of People, Places and Memories
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Suffering Moses
String Secured Parcels
21 April 2026
Roads, Bridges and Tracks
Living in Kashmir: A Year of People, Places and Memories
Roads
Roads are the lifeblood of towns, cities and mountain communities and in 1979, we were fortunate to witness, at least in part, how they were made. On one of our travels together through the region, we came upon road workers doing precisely what had been done in these mountains for generations: chipping rocks into smaller rocks, then into stones, coaxing a passage through the terrain by hand and by will.![]() |
| 1979 Skardu Kargil road carved into the cliff |
A world apart from that precarious road was the newly completed Karakoram Highway, finished in 1979 though not yet open to the public. A remarkable feat of engineering, it had been constructed through the combined efforts of Pakistani and Chinese workers, but at a devastating human cost. At least 1,000 lives were lost during its construction, claimed by falls and landslides along one of the most unforgiving routes on earth.
The photograph here, taken by my husband on the Pakistani side, shows the finished road lying smooth and broad against the wild terrain surrounding it.
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| 1979 newly finished Karakorum Highway |
Other roads wound their way upward with serpentine determination, scaling one side of a mountain only to plunge with equal steepness down the other. The Sonamarg Pass was one such road.
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| Sonamarg pass road curling around the mountainside |
Along the lesser tracks that my husband travelled on duty, delays were simply part of the journey. It could be mules being led by soldiers up to their station, rock falls or just the mis-adventure of meeting a truck that found itself in trouble on a on a narrow road.
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| Mule troop on a mountain road, UN jeep in the foreground |
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| A truck in trouble blocking the road |
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| 1979 roadside tea stall in Hajira |
Bridges
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| Bridge across a gorge |
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| Crossing a river |
Tracks
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