Living in Kashmir 1979-80: A Year of People, Places and Memories
Arrival and all that followed
In late March 1979 we left Australia to spend a year in Kashmir. We were not travelling light, even if we tried to be practical. On our stopover in Singapore, we purchased two folding push-bikes, sensible things for navigating whatever streets awaited us, and had them sent ahead to meet us on arrival. It was the kind of optimistic planning that belongs to the beginning of adventures.
We touched down in Karachi after midnight, many hours after leaving Singapore. What followed was six long hours marooned on hard plastic chairs while armed personnel kept a steady, unsmiling watch. This was not a happy landing. Fortunately, we were befriended by two American men passing through. Their presence was reassuring.
Early in the morning we flew onward to Rawalpindi where the United Nations Military Observer Group (UNMOGIP) was headquartered through the winter months. I was accompanying my husband. He would serve as one of Australia’s peacekeepers along the Line of Control.(1)
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Compilation map of disputed territories - Wikimedia Commons Green - Pakistan, Purple India, Yellow -China |
The general practice, we quickly learnt, was that incoming military personnel were despatched to a field station along the Line of Control on their fourth day, gone for an initial six weeks before a five-day respite. Accompanying spouses remained in situ. This made me realise how necessary it would become to rely on the other wives and the UN observers as they rotated through postings. A welcome party the night of our arrival gave us a chance to meet other personnel and their wives.
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| Astor Field station |
Accommodation and its quirks
Our initial accommodation was in
Flashmans Hotel in Rawalpindi, where I would stay for the six weeks before headquarters transferred across to Srinagar on the Indian side in early May. It was comfortable enough, but comfort is relative, and events were about to make even a hotel room feel precarious.

We had arrived near the end of March and it was just 10 days later that an event that would have far reaching consequences took place.
The Indian Express, published on April 5, 1979 reported it thus:
Zulfikar Ali Bhutto, 51, was hanged and buried this morning (April 4). The deposed prime minister was hanged in the Rawalpindi Central jail at 2 am, flown by a Pakistan Air Force plane to southern Pakistan and buried about 10.30 am in the family graveyard at Naudero (in Sind), the interior ministry announced.
The security guard outside the headquarters of the UN military observers’ team in Srinagar fired to disperse angry mourners for Bhutto. (2)
In Rawalpindi, I was confined to my room at Flashmans.
Tensions were high. My husband, out on field station, tried repeatedly to reach
me. Communication from those remote postings was unreliable at best, a
crackling line, a wrong connection, silence. When he finally got through to
what he hoped was Flashmans Hotel and asked, cautiously,
“Is that Flashmans Hotel?” the voice at the other end said simply, “Yes” and
hung up. He tried again and again. When we finally managed to speak, I
could at last assure him that I was safe and being looked after, and was not,
despite appearances, in the midst of a revolution.
Srinigar with some hazards
In early May, headquarters moved across to Srinagar and we
settled into an older, established house in the Raj Bagh neighbourhood, a
spacious ground-floor apartment with the owners living quietly above us. It
felt like the beginning of something more settled.
It was not.
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| House at Raj Bagh, Srinagar - water damaged photo, AI restored |
It is a sad fact that there are always those who will take advantage of others. One night while my husband was away on field station, I awoke to a noise in the second bedroom where all our clothes were stored. Two young men were helping themselves to our goods. My very loud screaming was enough to make them run away and bring the owners to my door. Later, in the bazaars, I always kept a lookout for any of our missing clothes. My pale pink skinny jeans, were never seen again.
We moved.
Our next accommodation was in a newer building, closer to UN headquarters, upstairs on the first floor, an elevation that felt, after recent events, like a reasonable precaution. One might think that misfortune followed. The bed had a wooden headboard and high baseboard, neither of which had been designed with a six-foot-two Australian in mind. My husband, when in from field station, slept curled like a letter C.
More dramatically, the bedroom ceiling had been decorated with an ambitious arrangement of multi-coloured broken ceramic tiles, a mosaic of sorts, secured by whatever optimism had prevailed at the time of installation. Yes, a disaster waiting to happen. One day while out, whatever was securing those pieces of tile to the ceiling, failed. We returned home to find the ceiling on the bed. Luckily, we were not in it.
Later in the year we moved into Inglenook, the headquarters house within the UN compound itself. It was, by any measure, considerably more comfortable than the life lived on the houseboats moored along the water’s edge. When the water retreated along the Jhelum river, the muddy banks were exposed leaving the residents a slippery trek across that wasteland.
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1979 -Houseboats at low tide, muddy banks
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2. The Indian Express, April 5, 1979, Forty Years Ago
This post first appeared on earlieryears.blogspot.com by CRGalvin
Goodness Carmel what a start you had. I’m really looking forward to following your adventures. Such a shame you lost your pink skinny jeans.
ReplyDeleteSmall losses in retrospect, but scary at times. Interesting how many times skinny jeans have gone in and out of fashion since then.
DeleteWhat an excellent topic for your A-Z challenge. Certainly not an experience many of us get to have - both interesting and scary at times, I imagine. I am not quite sure how I would react to people rifling through my second bedroom and stealing my clothes! I am looking forward to reading about your experiences.
ReplyDeleteYikes! Quite an adventure!
ReplyDeleteI would have been so mad at them going through my stuff...I probably would thrown whatever was closest at them to make them go away. Good luck with the A-Z adventure...it sounds like you have had a good one.
ReplyDeleteCheers,
Barbie
How frightening to find strangers rummaging through your things! I am so glad they were scared off. Pictures of the house boats may seem pretty, but the reality certainly isn't. That mud...
ReplyDeleteI loved reading this. You certainly had adventures, and managed to find the way to treat them... " secured by whatever optimism had prevailed at the time of installation" made me laugh out loud, which is something I rarely do. Thank you - looking forward to more.
ReplyDeleteOMG, what an auspicious arrival. As someone who has never lived anywhere more exotic than suburbs in Australia I'm keen to hear of your adventures.
ReplyDeleteGreat story. Must have felt a long way from Tarlee
ReplyDeleteIndeed it did.😊
DeleteWhoa, what an adventure! Can't wait to read more. I would have been freaked out by the ceiling falling too...
ReplyDeleteThe Multicolored Diary
Very few outsiders/tourists hired those house boats (called Doonga in local language) which are in Jhelum. Most visitors stay in the houseboats which are in Dal Lake.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the local word. I write about the lakes and tourist houseboats later in the month.
DeleteThe very name “Flashman’s Hotel” tells a lot but you certainly didn’t need the political dramas to go with living there. In those situations, the support of fellow expats is so important. YOur husband must have been worried sick about you. The roof tiles were amusing but not the burglar…why do they always pick your favourite item? I can see my comment every day could be “you’re a brave woman”.
ReplyDeleteI may have been then but more circumspect these days.
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