Living in Kashmir 1979-80: A Year of People, Places and Memories
Embroidered goods
One did not always need to seek out the merchants. They came to us. Keen-eyed and unhurried, they glided across Dal Lake in their shikaras whenever word reached them that a person was lingering on a houseboat, enjoying oneself, as one might politely describe it.
In this photograph, a visiting merchant has drawn his shikara alongside to display his wares. It was here that I purchased a lovely white cape with pale blue embroidery, its tiny intricate stitches speaking of patient hours and practised hands. Several other shawls followed me home that season, and most have since found their way into other hands and other houses, which seems a fitting end for things made to be admired.
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| A shawl given to a sister |
The embroidered suede coats, trimmed with fur were a particular favourite among visiting women. Mine served me faithfully for many years, and then, as the best-loved garments sometimes do, it passed to the next generation. In the late 1990s, our teenage daughter wore it in the cold winters of Paris. She assures me she still has it all these years later.
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| The embroidered coat many years later |
Embroidered bags and cushion covers were also popular items, but again discarded after many years of use.
An Elephant in the Yard
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| The apartment in Sonwar Bagh, Srinagar on the first floor. This was the scene of the collapsed ceiling and of the elephant sighting. (water damaged photo) |
He was quite right, of course. There it stood, enormous, unhurried, entirely at ease in surroundings that were considerably less accustomed to it, than it appeared to be. The elephant had simply wandered away from its keeper. The keeper appeared later in the day enquiring whether by any chance an elephant had been sighted in the vicinity.
It had indeed.
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| Not the elephant in our yard but our souvenir wooden hand painted elephants |





The embroidery would have been quite special ... And very few people can claim to have had an elephant in their garden!
ReplyDeleteI guess it did some damage but just wandered away when it lost interest.
DeleteHaha, the elephant story is priceless!
ReplyDeleteIf I hadn't seen it myself I would never have believed!
DeleteLovely. I especially enjoyed this vivid description: "...a lovely white cape with pale blue embroidery, its tiny intricate stitches speaking of patient hours and practised hands. Several other shawls followed me home that season, and most have since found their way into other hands and other houses, which seems a fitting end for things made to be admired."
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteThe cape certainly looks beautiful, and yes, a perfect description. I can easily imagine going crazy for those items but surely it was hard to pass them all on. Your daughter looks lovely in the coat. And the elephant story…😃
ReplyDeleteHad a little AI help with the description...Claude can suggest, I adapt.
DeletePleased to hear the the elephant was entirely at ease. I'm sure you weren't!
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DeleteThat coat is beautiful and I can imagine my daughter wanting to claim it for her travels also. I’ve never heard anyone say they had an elephant in their yard. What an experience!
ReplyDeleteEven more amazing that she still has that coat. The elephant was a surprise!
DeletePhoto of lovely warm shawl you sent me - its on my phone!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Marie, I've added it to the blogpost.
DeleteSharing the embroidery so everyone has a bit of handiwork sounds like an enjoyable experience.
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